Today, in this moment, I feel like a genius.
We’ve wanted to establish a reward system for our kids for good behavior, manners and listening. Nothing was inspiring me. Nothing.
Then, out of the blue, it all came together in my head: The Store! My kids love getting things from the store, so why not create one in our home?
Using jars I had at home, a recycled gift bag and a $15 trip to the party supply store, we were up and running. Here’s how it works:
- Each kid has a jar with their name on it. Every day they get two “gold coins” to start. The gold coins are from the Super Mario Bros. section of the party supply. I got about 30 of them for $2.
- The rest of the coins go in “The Bank,” an additional jar near theirs.
- If they show good behavior, good listening or good manners, a coin goes in the jar.
- If they don’t, a coin is removed from the jar.
- At the end of the day, each kid can count up their coins and “buy” something from “The Store,” which is a gift bag I filled with trinkets and small pieces of candy that cost anywhere from 40 cents to $1. The grown-up in charge of “The Store” that day sets prices. After all, we do live in a free-market economy.
- The kid can also choose to set up an “account” with “The Bank.” They can save any coins they earn in a day, and when they reach a certain amount, they go on a special outing such as the ice cream shop or Jungle Java.
- If the kid is having a bad day and loses all the coins, the grown-up in charge will start taking away one toy for each offence. The only way to get the toys back is the “buy” them back with earned coins. Kids cannot opt for something new from “The Store” or put anything in “The Bank” until all their toys are returned.
I’m not sure where this came from, or if it will even work, but I’m pretty proud.
– Rebecca Calappi is a publications coordinator at Beaumont Health and adoptive parent of multiples.